At such a time when half of my friends are in really serious relationships, I thought I had reasons to worry. Of course I do. Not because of anything, simply because they could be having a wrong definition of a ‘serious relationship’.
That because he finally texted back, “hello” you think you’ll soon get married. And the comment you made on FB he also liked it, so you think that things are getting pretty serious. And because you have really cute conversation with bae before bed, he’s the one.
The both of you love pets and so you thought by getting one together that will mean the beginning of something serious. In your mind you’re thinking it will be hard to get detached cause he will fear to hurt that pet. Think of those damped pregnant girlfriends, is that anything compared to your pet? Getting a pet together though, even jokers often do that, yeah!
He is nowadays very affectionate. I mean he now shows you lot’s of affection, because he holds your hands around the market place and his hugs last for some few more minutes. Body language is very crucial in reading how your guy feels about you. Tight hugs, even jokers often do that, right.
Oh my God, he just told me ‘I LOVE YOU’. Girl, take some chill pills. Those are very strong words that even johene calls he gets late at night are nothing but business-related. If you thought you were finally having something serious cause now you wake up early to fix for someone else’s man tea and wash his clothes, wake up. Girl, even jokers will move in with you, duh!
How about you take some chill pills and wait for the right time. There’s nothing as good as finding the right person at the time he chooses to come. So before you go posting everywhere on social media about your new found guy making us think we’re the ones who have gotten it all wrong, be sure it’s all right first.
But most importantly, make sure you are truly in a serious relationship. Even jokers act real sometimes.
[…] if y’all are in a serious relationship then I pray you make it happen this year. As for you who is still torn between Mr. Wrong vs Mr. […]
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Sure I am. Thank you for stopping by.
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Hello please view my blog at handlingrelationships.wordpress.com 🙂
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Thanks dear. I surely I’m.
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Sure, you’re very right dear. It’s in deed both of the parties. Thanks for stating that dear. 😊
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Hello Beetleypete, the pleasure is all mine.
Thank you for following back. Nice to meet you.
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Hi, Judy.
Thanks for following my blog, which is much appreciated.
Very best wishes, Pete.
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that is a reality check there
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I couldn’t agree with this article more.
Good read.
Keep writing jaber.
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I’m glad I did. Thank you.
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Nice piece Judy you opened my eyes
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What about men who think they are in a meaning relationship just to duscover they are being wasted? It is not only men who contribute to a useless relationship
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This has just opened my eyes. Its a pretty factual piece. Keep them coming gal. I love it.
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Relationship requires one to act circumspectly lest you fall with a big thud.
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Thanks Itanamara.;-)
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Thanks Cuzo.
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Thanks beauty. Sure I am doing that.
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Nice read Judy. Plz send me the series to my email
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Awesome Judy. Duh!! Jokers also do that. So true. Touched a heart today thanks.
Please send me the series to my email
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Great piece
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Nice article … 😀
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Do move with caution friend, the good and right sometimes have a really thin line.
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Thank you.
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This is well said. Everything we ask of the Lord He gives it to us.
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Aaaaw girl, thank you. 🙂
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Thank you.
Sure, there’s a blog coming up soon.
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Haha, you’re funny. It’s fine though.
Thank you.
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That’s true dear. With our own eyes we cannot tell the serious ones from the jokers.
Thanks dear.
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Judy, I liked the…”even jokers do that, duh”!!! Haha….
Keep it up, only that when they wake up we will have hard times…
Good piece.
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Thanks a bunch.
There’s a next blog coming on soon.
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Thanks beauty.
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Nice article Swry..
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Good piece of writing,,,,,Next time include the indicators of a ‘serious relationship” .
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A nice piece… Bt one thing am sure of is God will always show us the right person when we are in our knees
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I love reading your articles Judy
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So what’s a guy to do if all those signs are downplayed by Judy,or what are the signs of a serious relationship if not all of these and many more?
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A good wife is God given. You will always know the right person if you went on your knees and asked God.
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Nice
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Clearly that’s what happens. Don’t let it go to your head lest you get marooned when you’re infinitely and utterly alone. One thing’s for sure the right person wiĺl come at the right time. Patience is all it takes. You nailed it buddy!
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I see .Nice piece Judy now I am enlightened to move with caution on ladies,their expectations are always high.
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Wooow nycc read,my question though is if jokers and serious guys do the same things…..how will you distinguish the serious guy from a joker??
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I love,,,..nice article.
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So tru……UV just put it in the very right context. At times even jokers act for 5 years……..its time we girl level men to do their role as men…..I like old time live where he makes all the moves n u just have to submit or play hard to get………
Cheers gal
Twas a good one
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