Stay single, Save yourself the trouble.

Meet a single lady who has dealt with a harsh experience head on, she will tell you, one can never be happy as someone else’s other half unless she is happy while first on her own. That you would rather stay single until someone special actually compliments you in a way that it makes it better not to be alone. Yet again, is being single another meaning for loneliness?

Hell no! One can simply be happy and even have way too much fun in the singles corner. It saves you much trouble than being in an abusive relationship. What will it cost you to wait for the right time and the right man?

If you’re holding on to a relationship that has brought you much pain than happiness, if you’re thinking leaving him will mean a lifetime alone, start to think again. You could be thinking that others will think that no one shows interest in you when you finally choose to be single, shun those thoughts away. You’re worth more than that. You’re better single than trying to force a match with an imperfect wrong person.

There are better things like freedom, flexibility that only comes when you’re not seeing someone. This is when you do whatever thing you want to without having to seek for the other persons consent. You just do it! I love the thought of being single, you’re always there when you need yourself. 😉

Just so you know, single does not ever mean, ‘available’ and taken doesn’t mean, ‘in love.’ Not everyone who is dating is happy in it.  And what’s the reason for cursing yourself with a rushed decision and end up suffering the consequences for every single bit of your life?

Ever noticed, when you’re all single, you always notice nice couples. And when you chose to be in a relationship, all your eyes see are happy singles! I will just conclude that grass is always greener on the other side.

How about if you waited for the right man. Yes, someone once said there are no right men, you simply drag your left man to your right. But wait, there’s that man who will take you, appreciate you in your many weakness and help you shape them to strengths. These ones are given by God.  It’s better to stay single than with an unfaithful chap who will always hurt you, if you’re there, kindly flee!

Still wondering whether to be alone, know it’s probably safer. Much safer like, Totally single, Totally free, Totally happy, Totally satisfied. Notice being lonely is not at all included here, create your happiness with your friends. My mother will tell me, “Girl, save yourself the trouble, there’s no right thing as waiting upon God!”

Why the damn rush? Be easy. Stay single. But above all, know that God’s timing is the best.

A dedication to all my single friends who are still waiting upon God’s providence.